Posts Tagged ‘lifestyle’

Find Your Spot With The Stars

Monday, August 16th, 2010
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We all yearn for that special place that allows us to grow and be our best self while feeling safe and nurtured. Whether that spot is found within our home, our community, our passion or calling, or someone’s heart. In this time of rapidly changing circumstances and events, finding that spot is not always an easy task. And for some it is currently an uphill climb. For that reason, this post is dedicated to finding your spot using a rather creative medium. Astrology!

Ray and I have invited Shellie Enteen back (you may remember her as one of the Forgive It Forward muses) to share with us her take on finding your spot with the stars. Whether you are relocating or simply recalibrating where you are, we hope her expert  musings will assist and inspire you. Enjoy!


Where on Earth?

Guest Musings by: Shellie Enteen of Astralessence

While many know that the positions of the Sun and planets on the birthday can tell about a person’s nature and even predict life events, not as many realize that the same birth chart holds important information about which locations on earth are the most favorable places for that individual to live.

A Total View

When considering relocation charts, the astrologer keeps the person’s strengths and weaknesses in mind and also their goals and desires. Planetary line charts are consulted first to see areas to be pursued and areas to be avoided (some planets bring more challenges and are best in the background where they can’t make too much mischief). Certain reasonable places in desirable areas are noted and then the birth chart itself is relocated for the location and examined for the total planetary picture. The choices begin to narrow down and several are described in detail, listing their strengths and weaknesses so the client can make their own (more…)

If Walls Could Talk? But They DO!

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

Feng Shui Eyes Focus on Art: Magic or Just Good Design?

You decide! Join us as we explore the world of art as seen through the eyes of Feng Shui. Whether you are an art lover, an artist, an interior decorator or simply someone who wants to feel good about what your walls are saying – you will walk away with a new view and an appreciation of the power art offers to your personal space!

Don’t Miss this Complimentary Event. 

Presented by Bernadette Rose Smith of Enlightened Interiors and hosted by The Hampton Fine Art Gallery.

Date: Thursday, February 25, 2010
Time: 4:30 – 6:00 PM
Place: Hampton Fine Art Gallery, Greensboro, GA

For Directions: Click Here.

The dramatic “Lady in Red” featured in the gallery photo above is a Handpainted Silk on Canvas by Lynn Meek.

You can see more of Lynn’s work, like this gorgeous Geisha Silk Wrap to the left, at Silk Siren.

Nature’s Way …

Monday, February 1st, 2010

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In the hush found under a blanket of white,
the rush of life is left behind.

Spinning Your Wheels on a Speed Bump

Monday, November 16th, 2009

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Okay. I know this photo has nothing to do with speed bumps. I just like its implication for things we miss when moving too fast.

 

You have a dream – to start a business, save a relationship, get healthy. You’ve set the goal and mapped it out. You’ve put in the effort. The time. The money.  Cruising down the road, you can see your dream destination up ahead so you push down on the accelerator and pick up speed. Windows rolled down. Radio turned up. Wind is blowing through your hair and you’re singing to your favorite, “gonna make it happen now” song when all of a sudden – BAM! Speed bump. Your head hits the roof and the only stars you’re seeing are within a nine-inch radius of your forehead.

Damn. Where did that come from? You gather yourself – and the map that slid off the seat – double check your directions and continue down the road. (Vision a little less clear for the stars.) Hmmm. Are those storm clouds up ahead and a wall of rain heading your way? You roll the window up tight, turn down a side street hoping to find a route around the threatening weather, and lean into the steering wheel with determination as raindrops hit the windshield. You start humming your, “gonna make it happen NOW I can beat this” song when SLIP-SPIN-BAM! Another speed bump? You can’t believe you hit another speed bump. Where the heck are you? (more…)

GOT CLUTTER? Come to this Spring Fling Workshop!

Tuesday, October 7th, 2008

spring: 1. to rise above.
fling: 1. to throw. 2. a brief time of wild pleasures.

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Before. Yipes!

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After. It's a Miracle!

Are you suffering from redund-abundance? Subscriptionitis? Paperyosis? Do you catch yourself clutter-muttering when you can’t find something? Have you lost your office? Your car? Are you merging two households? Moving an aging parent? Are you ready to downsize and set sail into your me-time? Then spring-fling-it!

So much stuff. So many decisions. So little time. This workshop offers hands-on hope for all Closet Clutterers, Life in the Fast-Laners, C.H.A.O.S. Sufferers (Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome) and anyone in between who wants to be more organized and less overwhelmed by “stuff.” With over a decade of “digging out” experience, I will show you how

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Fun-Shway Workshops!

Sunday, August 24th, 2008

Feng Shui With A Twist: an unexpected or different direction, method, or slant.

Before the Twist

Before the Twist

After the Twist!

After the Twist!

Why the Twist? Have you read the books and watched the TV shows only to find yourself more confused about how Feng Shui works or where to begin? Do you feel like harmony and balance in your home is a good idea but your Feng Shui IQ mutated into IQ-ITIS? (I Quit It Is Too Hard.) Are you new to Feng Shui and just want a fun way to satisfy your curiosity and explore what this life-enriching practice has to offer? This workshop is for you!

What the Bleep is Fun-Shway? Bernadette’s playful, exploratory approach shows you how to activate the power of intention and attract into your home – and life – the best “chi for me.”

Fun-Shway is an attitude that offers a new pair of glasses through which to view what Feng Shui can do for you. (more…)

Forgive Us Our Trash Baskets

Saturday, August 2nd, 2008

As we forgive those who put trash in our baskets – or mailbox.

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GreenDimes.com is using $5 million of their money to pay you to stop junk mail! Why? In their own words, “Because junk mail sucks! And we want to help you stop all the credit offers and other crazy stuff that’s clogging your mailbox!”

Since 2006, their GreenDimes Premium service has helped thousands of people. For just $20 – a one time investment – they remove you from junk mail lists, stop unwanted catalogs, monitor your account’s list status every month, provide 24/7 customer service AND plant 5 trees on your behalf. 

And, with their new do-it-yourself service, GreenDimes Basic, you can clean up your mailbox for FREE. 

GreenDimes wants to attract millions to the cause! But instead of buying TV and banner ads, they decided to do something creative to show how much they care about this problem. For a limited time, GreenDimes will pay you a dollar to stop your junk mail — and the waste it creates. And they even give you the option to use that dollar to let them plant a tree on your behalf through one their partners.

Redemption is at hand! For those of you who are frustrated with junk mail, this is an awesome deal. (Are you paying attention?) Check them out. And spread the word.

Hmmm. This service would make a nice gift for that person who has everything. Any of my people ready to give up their catalog addictions? Hint. Hint.

3 TIPS: Use Art & Feng Shui To Empower Your Home or Office

Friday, August 31st, 2007

• Environmental Affirmations 

• Original Art Carries Potent Chi 

• Match Art to Room Function and Bagua

 

1. Environmental Affirmations

 Art reflects aspects of yourself that can lift you up or drag you down. Art that engages positive feelings through subject matter, color, or texture creates a wonderful environmental affirmation within your home. Whether you take the time to consciously enjoy it as you sip your morning coffee or unconsciously lose it in your rush out the door, art is always speaking on your behalf with its subliminal message. Advertisers drive their multi-million dollar industry on “fuel” provided by the power of inferred and subliminal messages everyday.

• Take a moment to look at the art you have around you. What part of you is it affirming? Do you like what you see?

 

2. Original Art Carries Potent Chi

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Art directly from the artist’s hand – whether a specially commissioned piece, a purchase from a local gallery, a gift, or from your Aunt Martha – carries an increased amount of Chi.

Why?

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10 Zen Seconds: an interview with eric maisel

Wednesday, May 16th, 2007

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“Let us start our process of reawakening with just a few simple concepts: Thoughts increase by being given away. – The more who believe in them the stronger they become.” A Course In Miracles (T-5.1.2.1-4)

Certainly an excellent reason to be mindful of the thoughts we entertain and “give away” in this world today. (And a wonderful guidepost to determine if we will enjoy reaping the consequences of a thought.) Ray and I are gathering and sharing good karma for the thoughts we will be “giving away” today because we have as our guest Dr. Eric Maisel, who will be talking about his new book Ten Zen Seconds; a book that introduces a powerful approach to living a more centered, grounded, and meaningful life.

Eric, Ray, and I will focus on how to use the techniques in his book to apply mindfulness when going through a major life transition such as a separation, divorce, career change, etc. – and of course how to use Ten Zen Seconds to inspire more creativity and passion in our everyday lives!

Ray & Bernadette: Hi Eric! We are so glad that you could be with us today to “give away” thoughts worth increasing!

Eric Maisel: Thanks for having me!

R&B: What is Ten Zen Seconds all about?

EM: It is actually a very simple but powerful technique for reducing your stress, getting yourself centered, and reminding yourself about how you want to live your life. It can even serve as a complete cognitive, emotional, and existential self-help program built on the single idea of “dropping a useful thought into a deep breath.”

R&B: We like the idea of of keeping it simple. Tell us how it works.

EM: You use a deep breath, five seconds on the inhale and five seconds on the exhale, as a container for important thoughts that aim you in the right direction in life – I describe twelve of these thoughts in the book – and you begin to employ this breathing-and-thinking technique that I call incanting as the primary way to keep yourself on track.

R&B: Where did this idea come from?

EM: It comes from two primary sources, cognitive and positive psychology from the West and breath awareness and mindfulness techniques from the East. I had been working with creative and performing artists for more than twenty years as a therapist and creativity coach and wanted to find a quick, simple technique that would help them deal with the challenges they regularly face; resistance to creating, performance anxiety, negative self-talk about a lack of talent or a lack of (more…)

Altered States or Zen – in 10 Seconds?

Friday, April 27th, 2007

“Centered and uncentered are useful words that conjure a way of dividing our experiences into the kinds that we want to nurture and the kinds that we hope to avoid. We prefer to feel less scattered, chaotic, distracted, anxious, nervous, irritable, and unsettled. We would like to marshal our inner resources, focus our attention, make strong decisions, and act when action is required.”  

Eric Maisel, author of “Ten Zen Seconds”

If you’ve participated in one of my workshops or had me in your home as a Feng Shui practitioner or organizer, you have heard me talk about the importance of centering within your space. You have heard me use words like “awareness,” “mindfulness,” and “intention.” And you’ve been encouraged to see yourself as an intrinsic part of the equation when taking any action to create a more centered – and centering – home or workplace.

When you are not centered, you do not get to be part of the equation. Everything and everyone else does!

On Wednesday, May, 16, 2007 – coincidentally the center of the week – Dr. Eric Maisel will be visiting our blog to answer questions about his new book, Ten Zen Seconds, in which he offers simple yet powerful approaches to centering.

Simple approaches. Nothing mysterious. Nothing high-maintenance. And yet … (more…)